A buyer named David calls you directly about your condo listing at 100 Main Street, Unit 2205. Your first job: build rapport, then qualify his representation status.
PeterHi, this is Peter Luo. Thanks for calling about Unit 2205 at 100 Main Street โ great choice! May I ask your name?
DavidHi Peter, I'm David Chen.
PeterNice to meet you, David. I'd love to help you. So I can best assist you โ are you currently working with a real estate agent on your search?
This is the gate question. Ask it early โ it's natural, professional, and determines your entire next move. Never skip or delay it.
Has Signed BRA
Agent, No BRA
No Agent โฆ
DavidYes, I have an agent. We signed a buyer representation agreement.
PeterOh great โ is your agent too busy to show you this one?
This question is gold. It's soft and non-judgmental, but it reveals a lot. If the agent is "too busy," David is feeling underserved โ and that's important intel even if you can't act on it today. It also gives David permission to express frustration without feeling disloyal.
DavidNo, she's not too busy. I just happened to see the listing and called the number.
PeterI totally understand โ since you have a signed agreement, the best way to see the property would be for your agent to book through the appointment desk. They'll get it set up quickly. Would you like me to give you the appointment desk number to pass along?
DavidYeah, I'll ask her to set it up.
PeterPerfect. And David โ just so your agent has the key details: the unit features southwest exposure with incredible afternoon light, open-concept layout, and the building just completed a major lobby renovation. If your agent has any questions at all, they can reach me directly. I look forward to the showing!
Do NOT show the property yourself. Once a buyer confirms a signed BRA with another agent, respect the representation. Showing them directly creates liability. Redirect graciously but firmly.
But what if he says "Yes, she's too busy"?
DavidYeah, honestly she's been hard to reach lately. I've been doing a lot of the searching on my own.
PeterI hear you, David. That can be frustrating โ especially when you're actively looking and the market moves fast. I do have to respect the agreement you have in place, so I can't show you the property directly. But here's what I'd suggest: have a conversation with your agent about whether the arrangement is still working for both of you. And if anything changes down the road, I'd be happy to help. I specialize in the downtown condo market and I'm always just a phone call away.
You planted a seed without overstepping. You acknowledged his frustration, respected the BRA, and positioned yourself as the backup. If that relationship falls apart โ and it might โ David knows exactly who to call.
DavidSort ofโฆ I've been working with an agent casually. She's shown me a few places, but we haven't signed anything formal.
PeterI see โ is your agent too busy to show you this one?
DavidHonestly, she sends me stuff now and then, but I've been finding most of the listings myself. That's how I found yours.
"Is your agent too busy?" is gentler than asking "Are you happy with your service?" โ it gives David a face-saving way to express dissatisfaction. His answer just told you everything: he's doing the work himself, and the agent isn't proactive. Now pivot to the intelligence question.
PeterI hear that a lot. It sounds like you're doing a lot of the heavy lifting yourself. Let me ask you something, David โ beyond this unit, are you also interested in seeing other similar properties in the area, or have you already seen them?
"Are you interested in seeing other similar properties, or have you already seen them?" โ This is your most powerful intelligence question. The second half โ "or have you already seen them?" โ flatters David by acknowledging he may be experienced, and extracts how far along he is. His answer reveals:
โข If YES โ He's actively searching and needs real help. His current agent isn't meeting his needs. Strong path to BRA.
โข If NO, just this one โ He may be casually browsing or very early stage. Show value, plant seeds for follow-up.
DavidYeah, actually. I've been looking at two-bedrooms downtown but it's hard to know what's actually good value versus overpriced.
PeterThat's exactly where having the right representation makes all the difference, David. Here's what I offer my buyer clients: I don't just find you listings โ I analyze every unit against recent sales, building health, reserve funds, upcoming assessments, even rental demand if you ever want to lease it out. My clients walk into negotiations knowing exactly what a property is worth, not just what it's listed at.
PeterOn top of that, I have deep connections in the downtown condo market. I often hear about listings 48 to 72 hours before they hit MLS โ which in this market can be the difference between getting a unit and losing it.
DavidThat's really useful. I've definitely lost out on a couple places because I found out too late.
PeterExactly โ and that's the problem I solve. What I'd suggest is this: let me show you Unit 2205, and I'll also pull up two or three comparable units so you can see what's out there. Before we start, I'll ask you to sign a Buyer Representation Agreement with me โ that formalizes our relationship and means I'm legally bound to act in your best interest, not the seller's. If you feel like I can add value to your search, it'll be obvious from the experience. No pressure โ let the results speak for themselves.
DavidThat sounds really reasonable. When can I come see it?
DavidNo, I don't have an agent. I've just been browsing online and saw your listing.
PeterNo problem at all, David โ I'm glad you called directly. You've actually got great timing. Tell me โ what caught your eye about Unit 2205?
DavidThe layout looks really open, and I like that it faces southwest. The price also seems reasonable for two bedrooms downtown.
He just told you three priorities: open layout, natural light, and value for money. Remember these โ you'll weave them into your value pitch later.
PeterYou've got a great eye โ the southwest exposure is honestly the best feature of this unit. Now David, let me ask you this: beyond Unit 2205, would you also be interested in seeing other similar two-bedroom units in the downtown core, or have you already seen them?
"Would you like to see other similar properties, or have you already seen them?" โ This is your most important question. The "or have you already seen them?" addition acknowledges his effort and draws out how deep he is in the search. His answer tells you everything:
โข YES โ He's actively searching and needs an agent. He's open to a broader relationship. Strongest path to BRA.
โข NO, just this one โ He may be early-stage or casually looking. Show value, impress him, plant the seed for follow-up.
DavidYeah, actually. I've been looking for a while but it's hard to know what's a good deal. I'd love to see what else is out there.
Green light. He needs guidance, has been searching alone, and wants to see more. Time to demonstrate value and introduce the BRA naturally.
PeterI'm glad you mentioned that, David, because that's exactly where I can really help. Let me share what working with me looks like โ because it's quite different from browsing on your own.
PeterWhen I represent a buyer, I don't just open doors. I do a full market analysis on every property you're seriously considering โ recent comparable sales, price-per-square-foot trends, building reserve fund health, any upcoming special assessments, even rental income potential. My clients walk into negotiations knowing exactly what a unit is worth, which means they never overpay and they write winning offers.
PeterI also have deep connections in the downtown condo market. I often hear about listings 48 to 72 hours before they hit MLS โ which in this market can be the difference between getting a unit and losing it to someone who got there first.
DavidThat sounds really useful. I've definitely lost out on a couple of places because I found out too late.
PeterExactly โ and that's precisely the problem I solve. So here's what I'd suggest. I'll prepare a shortlist of units that match your criteria โ we'll start with 2205 and visit two or three others. Before we begin the tour, I'll ask you to sign a Buyer Representation Agreement with me. This formalizes our working relationship, which means I'm legally bound to act in your best interest โ full fiduciary duty. I negotiate for you, not for the seller. And it gives you access to my complete suite of services.
The BRA is framed as something that protects him and unlocks benefits โ not as paperwork or a commitment you need from him. You've already demonstrated enough value that signing feels like the logical next step.
DavidWhat does the agreement actually commit me to?
PeterGreat question โ I appreciate you asking. The agreement establishes that I'm your dedicated agent for a specific time period. It outlines how my compensation works, and most importantly, it means I have a legal obligation to protect your interests above everything else. Without it, I'm technically the listing agent on this property โ representing the seller's side. And I don't want that for you. I want to be in your corner.
"Without it, I'm representing the seller" โ This is a powerful truth most buyers don't realize. It reframes the BRA from "What do I lose by signing?" to "What do I lose by NOT signing?" Going without representation puts him at a disadvantage โ and now he understands that.
DavidThat makes sense. I didn't think about it that way.
PeterMost people don't โ and that's exactly why I take the time to explain it. I believe in full transparency. So โ how about we set up a time this week? I'll prepare a shortlist of units, we'll start with 2205, and I'll walk you through the full picture. Sound good?
DavidYeah, let's do it. How about Thursday afternoon?
PeterThursday works perfectly. I'll send you a confirmation text with the details and a few insider tips for touring condos โ things to look out for that most buyers miss. Looking forward to it, David.